Did you know that meeting people for free can be simple? Something like this is viewed by many as a complicated process which takes a lot of effort or planning. If that’s how you view things then that’s exactly how it will be.
But if you view it as an easy and simple process which takes no effort at all then you are on the right track.
Before we begin I just want to mention.
It Starts With Your Mindset
Mentally you have to be open to meeting people. You’re doing it just for the sake of doing it. Not looking for or wanting anything back in return.
Carrying the idea of wanting something back in return will make it much more difficult to succeed. Your attitude may change and show signs of clinginess which can turn people off.
Another deterring factor is going out to meet people and ending your day without having met anyone.
- Are you always going to meet many people? No
- Are you always going to meet some people? No
- Are you always going to meet an individual? No
There will or may be days you don’t meet anyone at all.
It can be your body language which may get better over time as you practice. Or the people you’re encountering just aren’t open to meeting or communicating with strangers.
Whatever happens-good or bad-don’t let it affect you.
Just keep moving forward.
Wayne Gretzky had an old saying.
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
You Can Go Out For A Walk
In a safe area it can be easy to say hi to a random stranger while passing by them.
The more you do this, the easier it will become.
Saying hi to someone with them responding back positively is a great feeling. When that happens don’t put too much focus into it and continue on with your day.
Volunteering Is Another Great Option
Volunteering is a great and easy way to meet new people.
The people you are volunteering with are passionate about the same cause you are. Most of the time at least.
Makes it easier to get along and connect with.
On top of that the people you are helping, serving or selling things to are more open to chatting because they are there to support the cause.
Sit Outside And Read A Good Book
If you live in a house, sit outside in the front and enjoy a good book.
You have no idea how many neighbors passed by saying hi or strangers passed by with me greeting them.
Sometimes they might ask what you’re reading and how the book is. Other times I mention something casually to them.
With this you are not looking for anything back in return. You just want to engage and bring positive happiness into their lives.
Had A Great Experience Using MeetUp.com
I used this website over 10 years ago. Can’t give updates on how it is now.
Back then I was in my shy phase and looking to go out, branch out and meet new people.
Some groups on here I checked out. Overall seemed okay. But there was one which I joined and attended the get togethers.
Person was a young adult who owned her own dance studio. Met some cool people who I kept in contact with for years afterwards.
There were movie nights, game nights, etc. It was a lot of fun.
These get togethers happened every Friday night for a few months then it stopped.
Later in the future I heard the host of the group did these get togethers because she was looking for a special guy to marry and start a family with.
Overall from my experience. The website had potential.
There was another group hosted by a male who lived near me. I tried joining but was declined.
If you try the website, search for groups which cater to your interests and desires. Scan deeply as well.
Use your gut to decide whether one seems like a good fit for you. I only say this because things have changed a lot from over 10 years ago to now.
Attend Events
Festivals, Parades, Marathons, Venues like Arenas or Stadiums.
You’re all there for the same reason. To see a specific group or performer.
Person or group of people next to you may be open to chatting in relation to the event you are at.
Not as easy to do all depending on the their personality type.
Book Club
If you’re a big fan of reading, book clubs may work for you.
Engage with others on the books you’re all reading.
Farmers Market
Visit a farmers market. You don’t even have to buy anything. You can to support small business.
Ask questions about the things they are selling.
Dog Park
If you have a dog this is an easy one.
You’re out walking your dog and approach another person who’s walking their dog.
Guess what will happen?
When the dogs start barking at each other that gives you the opportunity to start a conversation.
Gym
This is a tricky one. Many at the gym don’t want to be interrupted when working out. Others love to socialize. And then there are those who only go to get pictures taken for their social media accounts. This is what I’ve heard recently.
You’re already paying for your gym membership to work out and keep fit. So the opportunity to meet more people-possible workout buddies-is a bonus.
Conclusion
Thanks for taking the time to read my post on meeting people for free is very simple. I hope you were able to get some good ideas which can help you interact with and meet more people. Back then I was so shy that everything you read here was nothing more than a complete fantasy to me.
I was way too nervous and shy to attempt any of this. Nowadays I have a blast interacting with nearly anyone.
You deserve an amazing fun filled life and if you have any questions or comments feel free to leave them below.